The crisis started when I realized I had signed my children up for three different camps which all started at the exact same time. Two were on opposite ends of the county from each other.
A missed connection for early drop off meant that out of three children, only 1 arrived on time.
These camps are physical for the children. The girls are dancing for 8 hours a day and my son is out running for 3 hours in the heat for soccer. They all come back very tired at the end of the day.
As for me, it is a LOT of driving. I am hoping I will learn next year how to better plan my summer camps. This week is not going to be my greatest success but I still think we will have great things to show for it.
I wrote the text above when we started the week. My most memorable experience from this week was picking my son up from soccer on Monday. I asked him how camp was and he said something like “Pretty good.” I said, “I’m glad. Maybe when you come back tomorrow . . . ” My son interrupted, “WHAT?!?! I have to come back tomorrow?!?” He then collapsed on the ground in complaint.
I am glad to report that the next day went much better and that by the end of the week there were no more complaints.
Meanwhile the girls managed to avoid injury and learn so much. My younger daughter was with a group of Russian ballet instructors and managed to learn 4 dances from the Nutcracker: Russian, Arabian, Chinese and character dances.
My older daughter had a great time bonding with friends and pushing herself to learn new skills.
I didn’t manage to get much done personally despite these camps being local and allowing me to have at least some time home during the day. I spent most of my free time working on homeschool planning for next year and helping plan a possible trip for our church youth group.
One of the challenges with summer scheduling is that every week is different (and sometimes every day!) Just as you get used to one schedule, it all changes again. So even if you have the best of intentions to blog every day, it just falls off the wagon very easily! Curiously, the weekend “breaks” from this hectic schedule made it harder to stay on track than the busiest camp days!
Cub Scout Day Camp finished up with a wonderful family day. I brought all of my children. My daughters helped out watching 5 toddlers in the “Tot Lot” and my littlest son was energetic and curious as usual but amazingly stayed off the BB gun range and out of the fishing pond.
The end of camp was bittersweet. We were glad to have a rest from the busy schedule and the physical difficulty of being outdoors all day long but will miss the friends we made and the community we established for the week.
The next day, I spent hours going through my photos, cleaning up paperwork and formally “ending” this event. Then it was some shopping to do. By the time I finished with all that the day was gone. I never got to the home improvement work I wanted to do.
On Sunday, we went to church as usual then I had to take my daughter to her dance camp audition. I had fun catching up with our dance friends but after all that was over, I had no energy left for the home improvements and other tasks.
So, I’m still figuring out my summer schedule. This week everyone is doing camps in town but now there are 3 camps to manage instead of 1!
Day four of Cub Scout Day Camp is done! It has been a long week hanging outside in the heat all day, using port-a-potty’s and packing lunches. At the end of the day, my feet hurt and I am tired. I am jointly responsible for watching over 6 boys and am asked to pitch in to help with another 5 or so in our camp den.
Today went a bit slower than the previous days. There were no fish caught today, no BB bullseyes…but just when you think there will be no milestones, something happens! Today the big advancement was in archery. My son got his first bullseye! Then, even though he is one of the littlest guys on the range, he chose to shoot the big recurve bow at longer distance. I was proud when he got a few arrows on the target!
Summer day camps are an interesting experience. The first day or so is hard to adjust to the new schedule or physical stresses like weather or activity level. About mid-week you start to get the hang of it and then by the end of the week a part of you feels you will miss your new routine and seeing the same friends every day.
Tomorrow, we bring all the children to camp for family day. I am still nervous that my little guy is going to find his way to the BB gun range, the fishing pond or the archery range. Fingers crossed he will stay on the playground!
Another day outside at camp! Mom is getting sore but my son is still going relatively strong. He arrived sleepy this morning and took a nap in our wagon. At the end of the day, he fell asleep on the bench during crafts!
Highlights today include hitting the archery target by himself, catching yet another fish (a huge catfish the instructor had to help reel in!) and hitting a bullseye twice on the BB gun range!
It has been interesting to watch the learning process in the scouts. My son went from scoring a zero on the BB gun range on his first day to two bullseyes on the third day. It took some experimentation from his instructors to realize that he was shooting on his non-dominant side and he needed to steady himself on the shooting table to “fire from rest.” Once we unlock how we learn best, there is no limit to what we can do.
As I work with the other boys, I find it is very common that even the brightest among them struggle with handwriting. They use interesting language to teach each other how to do certain physical skills, like handling an arrow or shooting a gun. They describe to each other the movements they need to make to be successful.
There are a few boys that struggle with following directions or obeying orders from adults. I have increased sympathy for this problem from working with my own boys. I try to let them know that we like having them there and that we want them to stay in camp but they need to follow the rules. It is curious to me that whether given a gentle approach like I usually do or a harsher, more authoritarian approach, like some of the other leaders, it doesn’t seem to make much difference. If the boy is not motivated himself to do a certain behavior, it often doesn’t get done.
My daughter who reads this blog informed me that readers are probably curious where she, her older sister and our littlest one are this week. They are having their first ever babysitting job watching my littlest one! The camp is a very short 10-minute drive from my home and I check in with them periodically. So far, they are learning that watching children is a lot of hard work and are demonstrating great maturity which is a learning experience in itself.
We added a new camp to our summer rotation this year…Cub Scout Day Camp! We are a relatively new scouting family so none of us has any experience with this camp. Naturally, I, the least skilled person in matters of archery, shooting sports and fishing, am the scout leader for our pack for this expedition! Also, as the least experienced camp person, the boys also let me know what I am supposed to be doing. Many of them have been to camp for years.
It seems a common problem in scouting in 2019 that the people with all the scout skills are also the people who work full-time to support their families. That leaves a pool of eager but unskilled volunteers to do the actual scouting work with the children. Fortunately, there are a couple of key skilled volunteers to help at each station.
Today, the boys and I struggled in the heat going from station to station. A common refrain from the boys was “When is this over? I want to go home to my Xbox/Fornite/computer.” But by the end of the day, they were having a rousing game of 20 questions and getting excited about shooting BB guns.
I came home exhausted and took a good nap. But we are ready to pack up and do it all again tomorrow!
Day 2 had us waking up tired from the recital yesterday. But it was off to church for the ice cream social to end the religious education year. Then right after that, it was a quick trip to the grocery store, a quick trip home to make picnic food (some fun sandwich skewers) and wish my wonderful husband a Happy Father’s Day! Then back in the car to drive to the church picnic held at a beautiful nearby farm. The kids lived in the pool and enjoyed swimming with their friends and blasting each other with water guns.
Then it was one more quick trip to the grocery store then back home to work a bit on a patio painting project I am trying to finish but keep getting thwarted by supply problems and the weather.
One of the most frequent questions you get when you tell someone you homeschool 4 children is “How do you have enough time?” Life as a homeschooler is getting much much busier as my children age. There are so many extracurricular activities to schedule and drive to. In addition, the educational requirements are getting more and more difficult and time consuming.
This year, as we reach the cusp of 9th grade and high school, many of our homeschool friends are headed back into public school in droves. They are afraid of the level of academic difficulty and the time involved. I can understand that fear.
For this summer, I plan to post my thoughts about preparing for the enormous challenge ahead….the first year of high school. High school starts with all the activities of the 9th grade summer.
So, my hope is that each day of summer, I will post a quick diary note about what we did. I hope it will give a glimpse of how overwhelming but also fun life as a homeschooler can be.
Today, Day 1 (yesterday) was my daughter’s dance recital. We spent the prior week finishing our standardized testing for my eighth, fifth and second grade. Then we moved right into rehearsals, makeup, and so many costumes. I also managed to volunteer to create a 4 foot high mountain out of paper for the stage set! At the end, we were all so tired but also so proud! They have made so much progress this year and are really starting to show their talents to the world!